Being in a relationship doesn’t define how active or inactive you should be in the bedroom. Plenty of people manage to satisfy themselves without a committed partner by their side because pleasure can be found in so many different ways. Just look at these suggestions and see if you agree.
Enjoy Some Self Love
It’s likely that before you enjoyed intimacy with another person, you enjoyed it with yourself. Many people develop a greater understanding of pleasure by exploring and playing with their own bodies, and this isn’t something restricted to just your teenage years.
If you’re currently in between relationships, why not give self-love a try? It comes with plenty of benefits, and with various lubricants, toys, and videos to watch online, it’s easy to turn a solo session into something special. You may enjoy it so much that you’ll want to incorporate it into a future relationship.
Find A Likeminded Community
Whatever your interests, there are groups out there designed to celebrate them. Whether you’re a gamer, baker, or historical re-enactor, it’s easy to find others just like you who love sharing their passions in a group setting.
This goes for more adult interests, too, so it may be worth seeing what groups are out there that meet your needs. This may not result in any bedroom play – at first – but finding friends who understand and identify with your naughty side can bring plenty of satisfaction on its own.
Meet Someone Online
If you want to keep yourself satisfied while single, sometimes you just have to do things the old fashioned way. By that we mean whip out your phone, put that quirkiness on your sleeve, and hope that they reciprocate your advances.
If you’re between relationships and not yet looking for another commitment, these apps are definitely the holly grail. When all you want is a night of pleasure with someone you like the look of, this is definitely the way to go. Just remember that there are right ways and wrong ways to hit on people, and you want to avoid the latter.
Being in a relationship is great, but you can be just as happy as a singleton. As long as you’re finding ways to keep yourself satisfied, there’s no reason to get back in the saddle until you’re ready to.