Before falling pregnant I heard a lot of things like “wait till your pregnant you will want SEX 24/7”. And “omg it’s so much better when you are pregnant”. Now let me tell you this was not the case for me at all pregnancy at the most of times is hard balancing work and studies in-between you almost forget the time your meant to make for yourself. My sex life went from a 20/10 to a 1/10 if that.
There became a time at month 3 that I decided to give up on sex completely as I wasn’t feeling it, it became a chore more then something that I wanted or craved. It’s funny how much the brain plays a part of sex, smells, touch, heat/cold your brain decides all of that. So something that may have felt tingly and amazing before now feels over sensitive or uncomfortable.
It’s a really hard thing to come to terms with because you don’t realize how much good sex makes you happy until you stop it and no I don’t just mean orgasming its so much more than that when you form that connection with someone should I say that constant lust for attention and touch a simple kiss on the neck can be the most amazing feeling you feel every hair on your body stand up. A hot shower running down your back and having your partner wrapped around you pressed against you …… these are all the things that stop when sex stops because there is so much tension on you both that’s the last thing you want to do.
The funniest part for me is how hard it is to change that, something that came so natural before is now so strange and foreign. That’s until ……..
I found the mighty sex wand and yes I’m talking about that thing everyone says “omg that looks like a microphone”. Now let me tell you that microphone in a space of 40 seconds if that brought on a frenzy of emotion and feelings back to my life and I don’t know how I haven’t brought this into my life earlier I will discuss this later in my blog. The sensation this toy gives you solo or with a partner in my case this was the saviour of my relationship 2 months on from the “end of my relationship if you want to call it that” this toy has simply fixed so much it has filled that gap of feeling unwanted and loved I now get to have the sex life I had and even more. I couldn’t recommend this enough to pregnant or not pregnant women that just are not “feeling it” in the bed room. And for women that are thinking they cant enjoy it and they haven’t I can only tell you my personal experience and this is it.
It’s a great way to allow you to take control of your body and not relying on him to try and do something that isn’t humanly possible we put so much pressure on males from things we have watched from porn and say that they cannot do there “job right” which leads to no communication and then your relationship forms around the thought of him doing his job wrong. But ladies its your job to make you feel good as well and to aid him with the information that feels good for you every female body is different. sometimes we forget that and we accept that we do not need pleasure and that as long as he’s happy that’s all that matters I believed this for 8 years with my ex until I had enough and took control. Yes that’s 8 years without an orgasm with a partner. So the current partner I have I just simply took control and figured out what I wanted and liked and once I figured that out I seen sex in such a different light.
The mighty wand has been the highlight of my sex toy experience I have owned many many toys and this for me just made my brain scramble when I used it its funny I bought it thinking “oh it’s a vibrator cool” pffftttt was I wrong the first experience I had with this amazing toy was a midnight just finished work and really just wanted a hot shower I wasn’t expecting much from this toy at all oh boy did it prove me wrong.
I started using it in the shower solo until my partner realized what I had gotten up to and decided to join me he stepped into the shower and kissed my neck from behind this is the first time I had butterflies since being pregnant I had Goosebumps all over my body a sensation I can’t explain he entered me from behind and my god my body started going crazy with the combination of this powerful wand and the thrusts of his penis deep inside me sent me over the edge with in 40 seconds making me unable to stand, he continued to thrust while holding me up pushing me against the cold glass making my nipples hard and sensitive he continued to fuck me while pulling my hair until I started gushing which lead to him Cumming instantly. It was the most sensitive and eye rolling orgasm I have had in 8 months. And I thank the wand for this and now when I talk about pregnant sex or sex in general with anyone this toy definitely gets a mention and comes under my must buy list. Doggy is a must with this toy hits all the spots perfectly and its also waterproof which makes it fun for those cold nights when you want a hot bath or shower and also want to have fun. It also doubles as an awesome massager so I don’t know what else you could ask for!!!!!!!!