5 Sexy Things You Can Do (That Don’t Need an Orgasm to Be Fun)

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Orgasms are absolutely fantastic, there’s no doubt about that. But, there might be times where you or your partner cannot or choose not to reach climax.

Sex should be pleasurable and fun, whether you’re orgasming or not. It’s those sexy, fun feelings that bring us to orgasm, and we wouldn’t be orgasming without them.

It’s just like that age-old saying – the journey is better than (or even the reason for) the destination. You wouldn’t do a hike to a lookout point and ignore the wildlife, plants and waterfall along the way, would you?

Let’s explore some other sexy and fun things that don’t include orgasms.

1. Sexting

pexels photo 230554Sexting is an amazing way to explore your fantasies, create future scenarios or recall hot memories.

Whoever you’re sexting, remember to ask for consent first. My favourite way to do this is to say something like: “Hey, I’ve been thinking about some sexy things lately and I’d love to share them with you, but it’s NSFW. Is that okay?”.

 

 

 

 

2. BDSM

pexels photo 1548274Whips, ropes, floggers, pinwheels, cuffs, domination – you name it.

Practicing BDSM is a hugely sexy and fun way to connect with people that doesn’t necessarily involve an orgasm, and may not necessarily involve sex at all.

 

 

 

 

 

3.Wearing lingerie

pexels photo 1895239Finding a gorgeous set of lingerie to wear during the day is the perfect way to bring some orgasm-free, sexy fun into your life whether you share it with a partner or not.

Having the sexy secret that you look absolutely delicious under your clothes is so hot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Shop for sex toys

How could I possibly write this list without mentioning this! I find browsing for sex toys SO much fun – it gets my imagination going and I really geek out on some of the technology.

Spoil yourself or somebody else with a new toy – the orgasm might just come shortly after the delivery

5. Taking nudes

 

Capture those angles and marvel at your wondrous body by have a sexy photoshoot by yourself. They don’t necessarily need to be nude photos but, if they are, make sure you only share them with people you trust completely.

Begin by moisturising your body, then find your light and use a self-timer for the perfect shots!

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