Buy a New Sex Toy
If you’re a regular to this site or reading this blog, you’re no stranger to sex toys. But is there a toy you’ve thought about but rejected as not being “for you?” Maybe you have a dildo collection but think you can’t use a sex furniture. Maybe you’re fine using vibrators but aren’t sure a strap-on is right for you. Make this the year you explore your curiosity and buy that sex toy.
Try Strap-on Sex
To be clear, strap-on sex isn’t just for the heterosexual couple who wants to experience pegging. Strap-ons are great for men with erectile dysfunction or women that want to penetrate their partner as they’re good for both vaginal and anal penetration. And a dildo and strap-on make for great oral fun, too. If you thought penetrating your partner wasn’t an option, it’s long past time to consider a strap-on.
Have a Threesome
If this isn’t your thing, skip it. But if you’ve had serious fantasies of being sandwiched between two willing bodies, maybe this is the year to make it happen. There are plenty of sites, to help you get to know people who want a threesome, too.
Trying new things isn’t just for the start of a new year, but many of us use that calendar change as a way to set new goals and try new things. If you can set resolutions about losing weight, getting a new job, or moving, why can’t you set some that involve your sex life, too? Think about what you want your sex life to look like and make a plan! There’s nothing wrong with making your sexual pleasure a priority this year.